Re: Advice Please- vivek ____ - new delhi

Dear Vivek

Its very sad that you got arrested for no fault of yours. .....Subject to my idea of *self help* which is very essential : http://tinyurl.com/pxcfz and standard disclaimers as in http://tinyurl.com/947u9

1. Let me assure you, you have crossed the worst

2. The fear of arrest under Dowry laws is the biggest threat men face. Or else the rest of the matter is a pure matrimonial dispute and can be handled as a civil matrimonial dispute...

3. Now that you have already been arrested AND released there isn't much damage that they can do

4. Your wife and in laws have tried their best AND failed

5. Please let me know if ANY other cases - say for maintenance or Divorce have been filed by either side

6. Also please read general help / guidance here http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/06/false-498a-wife-asking-for-share-of.html
or alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/23vqyb

or

7. General Help in similar cases here : ...My wife was the sweetest on earth. Suddely she has filed a false case against me ....
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/06/my-wife-was-sweetest-on-earth-suddely.html
or alternate URL http://preview.tinyurl.com/29easb


8. Even courts are aware of this malice "..Filing false 498A case amounts to cruelty - Bombay HC.."
http://merabarath.blogspot.com/2007/05/filing-false-498a-case-amounts-to.html
altenate URL http://tinyurl.com/2wmosg


9. You are NOT the only one, so stop thinking you are alone : These days I come across 100s if not 1000s of FALSE extortion cases and FALSE dowry cases. The law that was made to protect the woman, seems to be grossly mis-used to extract money from innocent men or to wreck vengeance. Do not think you are the only one affected. There are 10s of 1000s of FALSE cases all over India. Read here for more "..Though the woman who filed the dowry complaint is married to another man, the case goes on after 21 years !!! - UPDATES ....
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/06/though-woman-who-filed-dowry-complaint_19.html
or alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/29g5y9

10. You are entitled to meeting your son. You will have seek visitation rights thru the courts. Please read here for more. "......abhorrence towards the Father cannot but be the result of brainwashing by the Mother.....
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/06/abhorrence-towards-father-cannot-but-be.html
or alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/2q393v

10. SELF HELP TEAMS AT DELHI and all over India: *It is always preferable to get advise and support over phone or in person [numbers below]*. Everything cannot be UNDERSTOOD over mail. We have started many self help teams in India and aboard. I suggest you contact our Delhi Self Help team. Contact nos can be found at http://tinyurl.com/vntjz or alternate URL http://www.blurty.com/users/vinayak/day/2006/12/10


More after hearing from you

Regards
Vinayak

Name: vivek ____
Location[City/State]: new delhi
Hear about us: GoogleSearch
498A Registered: YES
498A Place: merrut (uttar pradesh)
498A Date: __early___2006
Any Other IPCs: 3/4,323,406,504,
Relatives Accused: mother,elder married sister,younger un married sister
Jailed Days: YES
Stage of Case: chargesheet
Spent Money on 498A:
Lived in joint Family: YES
Marriage Date: __late__2001
Wife Age: 25 +
Wife's Education Level: __post Graduate__
Wife works (earns)?: works
Filed for Divorce: NO
Have children: YES
Living With Wife: NO
Negotiating with Wife: NO
Took her Stridhan Back: NO
She had Any Medical Problems: NO
Willing to Help other Victims: YES

Comments:

My Father died in feb 2006 ,my wife left home and she filed FIR in _____ mahila thana in __early__2006,she pressurised me to get partioned in family share and to get her share in her name or otherwise she wont take back her complaint and sent everybody to jail.but in defence

,soon we got arresting stay from high court except me main accuced in fir i got arrested and jailed for __almost a month__ on __mid__2006 .

i got realised on _almost_a_month_later_in_2006 .

Now chargesheet has been sent to court by police.also she had filed suit under 125 crpc for maintaineance ,also she never allows me to meet our son who is with her since she left home

regards, vinayak

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Dowry Law Misuse : http://tinyurl.com/tdkx6 , http://tinyurl.com/v5vp8

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